Lately: Cabin Fever

When the thermostat says 90….. but even the dog is in layers.. time to finally break out the space heater… when after 9 inches of snow the building FINALLY plows your parking lot… in the middle of what, like the 4th polar vortex.

Which by the way, since when do we have polar vortexes?

My cabin fever is about at its max..

Life lately looks like:

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Homemade bruschetta…. chopped tomatoes, basil, garlic, olive oil, balsamic, salt and pepper.

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A little homemade Indian style butter chicken over lentils. Similar recipes abound on Pinterest, I combined a few 🙂

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And Butternut Squash, Kale and Gruyere Barley Risotto from Joanne’s blog, the recipe here. I peruse her blog on the daily and leave too many comments about my carbs habits 🙂

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And Mom’s homemade gyoza…. yum yum.

Whats going on in your kitchen lately?

Cabin fever anyone?

Oui, Brunch!

 And its back to the food posts, I’m sure there were a few sighs of relief 🙂

How about “A little piece of Paris in downtown St. Paul”?

We recently checked out Meritage for brunch. Having been to Paris once or twice, I felt a familiarity with the ambience and service. There was a classic feel from the moment you walked in.

Typical me, I had to test out the Bloody Mary.

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Conclusion: This is the best I have had since moving back, takes the top spot hands down. I guess I will be driving to St. Paul more often!

And like usual, I am seduced by the oyster offerings.

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My first Island Creeks. AND I will be ordering these again. And again. And again.

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Brunch had to be topped off with a bite of dessert.

I will be back. You should definitely check out Meritage.

Big plans for the weekend?

Celebrate Proper 2

Happy Tuesday! Need a few birthday celebrating tips?

1) Find a friend who picks out the best cards:

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So poignant, as Olive is a humper. Yep I said it. She humps. We are still working on this behavioral issue…

2) Check out a new to you Brewery:

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3) Indulge in the food truck outside:

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4) Play giant Jenga and perhaps stay for 5… or 6 hours:

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5) Once having your fill of beer, head to 1029 bar for lobster mac and cheese. Annnnd put some bacon on it.

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Four of us shared this, it did not stand a chance.

And that is what I like to call a proper celebration 🙂

Happy 28!

Happy Friday Everyone! O and Valentine’s Day to those that celebrate!

Big plans for the weekend? I will be celebrating another year older… hopefully by sampling a few local brews 🙂 And taking in a Sunday birthday brunch, as I’ve made clear my undying love for brunch. Perhaps brunch is my one true love.. for the time being…

 I feel birthdays call for reflections, which I started last year here…Its funny how much can change in one year…  I am in a new job, a new company, a different city and a different state.. my life is unrecognizable from a year ago.. and omg have I learned a ton…. Below are a few reflections from the last year, ranging from comedy to truth. My truths.

What I learned at 27:

1) Two day hangovers are real.

2)The jeans I bought 5 years ago no longer fit, time for new ones! So long metabolism, hello new healthier lifestyle.

3)Everyone around appears to be pregnant, announcing a pregnancy or posting their ultrasound pictures. My pregnancy knowledge is off the charts, and I’ve never been pregnant!

4) Everyone around you will start doing cleanses. And you will join them.

5) People will finally start to accurately predict your age. No more, “no way are you 21!”

6) Your dog is not an appropriate date to most social events. Some invites will even specify this.

7) Running into the ex or their family at weddings will lead to over consumption of alcohol. High fives may be involved.

8) Creepy guys from college will resurface and hit on you through online dating sites.

9) living with your parents for two months is actually an amazing experience. At this stage in life your friendship deepens and you get to see them at their prime. The things you thought were annoying in your teens are actually some of the funniest parts of their personalities.

10) You may question whether or not Botox will become organic in a few years…

11) The depth of friendship may become apparent, the friend label may slip away because truly they are family. There is no limit to what you will do for the friends you love.

12) Moving home is not always that easy. Many things have changed but so have you. It may be home but it is still an adjustment.

13) I don’t really love working out. I adore yoga sculpt but despise the treadmill. Suggestions??

14) It truly is a small world; the interconnectedness just won’t stop.

15) Being asked out on a date for grilled cheese sandwiches actually happens.

16) Men will send online dating emails about their “healthy 401ks”.

17) My obsession with anything decorative and BALL shaped has only worsened. I have to be physically restrained from entering the Christmas decoration aisle. ( confused, read here)

And because this is long enough and I’ve had way too many “deep” posts lately, you’re probably like, please lady, get back to the food posts already;

To conclude, at 27 I learned the struggle is worth the end result. Not always getting what you expected will teach you the unexpected. You have a strength you may have doubted.  The bottom of the barrel may not actually be the bottom. Things will happen at the right time.

So heres to another year of learning!

What have you learned lately?

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Hungry

You gotta stay hungry.

What are you hungry for? What is your soul searching for? What is the fire driving your passion?

That corner office? Raising a family? Writing the inner most workings of your thoughts?

Does serving others bring you joy? Have you found what turns 12 hour days into 2?

What keeps the flame going for you? Do you jump out of bed eager to paint the next most beautiful picture? Does your creativity flow through planning a flawless event? Does making a crowd roar with laughter delight your being?

You have to stay hungry. Find that passion and grasp it with clenched fists. Fight for it. Have you ever had to take that leap of faith for your passion? Ever let go of the stable and step off the cliff of uncertainty? Did you?

Any heartbreaking decision to get there will be more than worth it.

Still discovering that passion? Trying to become hungry? Looking around and taste testing? Our generation asks these questions earlier than our grandparents and often earlier than our parents. The critical part is to ask.

What is your passion? What are you hungry for….?

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Park or a Stream?

More dating humor here!

While I have to admit, I canceled my membership to this lovely dating site…

I saw a glimmer of hope on the horizon….

Which was soon after dashed by the reality of men.

So membership renewed and comedy to ensue!

1. Why do men post 25 pictures of themselves? What are you trying to prove buddy? This is NOT the new Facebook.

2. If your screen name sounds like “My DONG”….. you will be blocked!

3.  If you send a new introductory email every couple of weeks, it does not make me forget the previous emails…. still not interested… Do you forget the women you are hitting on??

4. Anything with “juice” in your screen name… puke!

5. Would I rather take a walk by a park or a stream? Perhaps you shouldn’t be emailing someone 30 years your junior…!

6. You’re a soldier of love huh? Sorry this is one battle you aren’t going to win.

7. Your introductory line is “I can’t cook but I clean good”…… I don’t even know.

8. Multiple days in a row of emails about your ex-wife….. running far far away!

And with that, happy weekend!!

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Do you ever…

Random Thought Wednesday

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Do you ever wonder… or ask yourself, this is it?

Have you ever looked around your cube and asked… 40 more years of this?

Or woken up next to someone and wondered… is this all love is? What am I missing?

Questioned why your volunteer efforts were so small?

Pondered your passions and compared them to others?

Analyzed your weekends and fond them lacking in fulfillment? I spending time doing what…?

Contemplated a year in Dubai? Just leave everything behind and go?!

No Dubai? Maybe that’s just me 😉

Perhaps I’ve spent too much time in traffic lately, but these questions just keep swirling….

ANYONE ELSE?

Just a Little Flair

Just a little throw back urge over here…

The desire for some old school romance..  when makeup was minimal and the dress a requirement… when high heels clicked over black and white tile… Gone with the Wind style…

When my man would tip his hat holding open the door, rather than sending the late night text..

Cigar smoking, bourbon drinking, old school flair.

Can you tell I was mesmerized by black and white movies?

I found a smidgen of my throw back enchantment recently… that is if you think alligator carcasses on the ceiling and being adjacent to a strip club equals romance…

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The food as good as I could have imagined

Every good throw back should have a steak topped with a crab cake as good as this one.

If you have an imagination anything like mine, step into J.D. Hoyt’s Supper Club and enjoy a few Cajun steakhouse classics.

Was anyone else as obsessed with Gone with the Wind as I was?

What was your favorite black and white movie?